Just a few weeks ago, Hecate did a story about Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker, and the rumors that they are dating. They were apparently leaving flirty messages on each other’s social media. It seemed sort of out of left field, but I would also imagine that they probably have mutual friends. I also remember watching Travis Barker and Shanna Moakler’s reality show – Meet the Barkers – which predated Keeping Up with the Kardashians! God, that just sent me on a journey to read Shanna’s Wiki page. Meet the Barkers had a lot of fun/dumb drama. Anyway, the point is that Kourtney and Travis have their own reality show histories and they have complicated relationships with exes and they’ve both lived and learned a lot. And now they’re officially together?

Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker are dating. Over the weekend, Kardashian, 41, and Barker, 45, enjoyed a trip to Palm Springs, California, where her mother Kris Jenner has a home. On Saturday, the Keeping Up with the Kardashians reality star and the Blink-182 drummer both shared poolside views of the residence’s backyard on their Instagram Story.

“They’re in Palm Springs together. They’ve been dating for about a month or two,” a source tells PEOPLE. “They’ve been friends for a long time but it’s turned romantic.”

“Travis has liked her for a while,” an insider shares.

A rep for Barker did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment. Barker shares stepdaughter Atiana, 21, daughter Alabama, 15, and son Landon, 17, with his ex-wife Shanna Moakler, whom he was married to from 2004-08. Meanwhile, Kardashian and her ex Scott Disick co-parent their three kids: sons Mason, 11, and Reign, 6, as well as 8-year-old daughter Penelope. Kardashian and Disick, 37, ended their nine-year relationship in July 2015.

Kardashian and Barker have known each other for years. In addition to living in the same Calabasas, California, community, Barker has previously made brief cameos on Keeping Up with the Kardashians.

[From People]

I seem to remember Travis saying some problematic stuff back in the day, but hopefully he’s grown up and matured and chilled out a lot. Honestly, I think these kinds of “adult love stories” are kind of nice. Two people in their 40s who have been friends for years finding a love connection. Kourtney’s past two boyfriends have been much younger than her, and I would assume that Travis has also got a list of younger exes too. Maybe they’re both in a place in their life where they just want to be with someone who remembers when Friends originally aired. Also: this could totally be a reality spinoff show for their new Hulu deal. Keeping Up with the Barkers?

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